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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 617383" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Chrissey, you may want to reconsider posting pictures of your granddaughters on this forum. This is anonymous and you want to protect the anonymity of your grandkids for many reasons, in particular the way things presently are with your daughter. </p><p></p><p>Are there Grandparents rights in England? Legal rights you have with your granddaughter's which goes through the legal system? I would find out exactly what my rights are.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter may, like many of our kids, have some kind of a conduct disorder or mental illness, but that does not give her any kind of pass to be able to treat anybody, in particular, her parents, in a disrespectful and mean spirited way. If you have enabled her then this situation is made worse because she feels entitled to have you offer your life up on the altar of her bad choices........<em><u>.don't do it. </u></em></p><p></p><p>I am raising my 17 year old granddaughter and I have, at this point in time, virtually no relationship with my daughter who is a difficult person who has issues which keep her from being responsible for herself and having empathy for others. She doesn't see her daughter at all. I am not advocating raising your granddaughters because as much as you love them, that is a very hard choice and believe me, it can be a very difficult path all around, in particular when they hit the early teens. </p><p></p><p>Your daughter is behaving in a cruel, selfish and manipulative way towards you and your husband. Perhaps the most logical way to deal with it is to incorporate visitation with your grandkids that you are all comfortable with, meaning you and the kids...........and then begin detaching from your daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 617383, member: 13542"] Chrissey, you may want to reconsider posting pictures of your granddaughters on this forum. This is anonymous and you want to protect the anonymity of your grandkids for many reasons, in particular the way things presently are with your daughter. Are there Grandparents rights in England? Legal rights you have with your granddaughter's which goes through the legal system? I would find out exactly what my rights are. Your daughter may, like many of our kids, have some kind of a conduct disorder or mental illness, but that does not give her any kind of pass to be able to treat anybody, in particular, her parents, in a disrespectful and mean spirited way. If you have enabled her then this situation is made worse because she feels entitled to have you offer your life up on the altar of her bad choices........[I][U].don't do it. [/U][/I] I am raising my 17 year old granddaughter and I have, at this point in time, virtually no relationship with my daughter who is a difficult person who has issues which keep her from being responsible for herself and having empathy for others. She doesn't see her daughter at all. I am not advocating raising your granddaughters because as much as you love them, that is a very hard choice and believe me, it can be a very difficult path all around, in particular when they hit the early teens. Your daughter is behaving in a cruel, selfish and manipulative way towards you and your husband. Perhaps the most logical way to deal with it is to incorporate visitation with your grandkids that you are all comfortable with, meaning you and the kids...........and then begin detaching from your daughter. [/QUOTE]
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