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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 583842" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>What a sorrowful tale. You are loosing your firstborn to long, cruelling illness (and by that, I mean both physical and mental) and not only that, you are loosing the good memories you most likely have from his younger years and love you feel for him. It's so hopeless situation. And it is hopeless for him too. Nothing can make him feel good and he simply doesn't have the skills to handle his own situation. He sounds like a miserable person. Very hurtful to others but also to himself. But you have to protect yourself and your other children. And let's face it, there is nothing you could do that could make him feel even tiny bit better. All you can do, is protect yourself and his siblings and mourn loosing your oldest again and again till you loose him for death. Maybe then you can again remember also few good days from older times.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 583842, member: 14557"] What a sorrowful tale. You are loosing your firstborn to long, cruelling illness (and by that, I mean both physical and mental) and not only that, you are loosing the good memories you most likely have from his younger years and love you feel for him. It's so hopeless situation. And it is hopeless for him too. Nothing can make him feel good and he simply doesn't have the skills to handle his own situation. He sounds like a miserable person. Very hurtful to others but also to himself. But you have to protect yourself and your other children. And let's face it, there is nothing you could do that could make him feel even tiny bit better. All you can do, is protect yourself and his siblings and mourn loosing your oldest again and again till you loose him for death. Maybe then you can again remember also few good days from older times. I'm so sorry for you. [/QUOTE]
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