During these few days, they are going to do whatever it is an insurance company does and decide how long difficult child 2 can stay. Keep your fingers crossed that they agree to as long as difficult child 2 needs. Now I just need to take care of me for the next few days. Besides being emotionally exhausted from all of this, it's given me a headache that doesn't want to go away. It's like an emotional hang-over. Unfortunately, I've used almost all my leave for 2009 already with difficult child 2 and I'm sure I'll need the rest for her.... so I have to take care of me while being at work.