REALLY? Now who's the manipulative one, your daughter or her boss? lol! He must be an interesting person.
I would meet him, on the sly, anyway, because I agree with-this: need.
it may provide KEY data that you
Just tell him you are data collecting and that you'd prefer he erase the fact that he even met you.
Then again, you may not want to go behind her back.
I'm always concocting things and then not following through with-half of them. Good thing I can dump it into my fiction writing.