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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 120835" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Vickie - sorry that things escalated to that level. </p><p></p><p>I was also thinking a bit like Calista. You know our "little wonders" are pros at triangulation & somehow, someway, it's going to be someone else's fault. They are just the poor misunderstood orphan.</p><p></p><p>And you know I don't say this lightly.l We've been through too much together with our individual adopted children to know I wouldn't bring it up if it weren't a concern.</p><p></p><p>However, I'm not walking in your shoes - I don't know where your marriage is. I don't know if your husband is using Aly to not face up to issues between you & him. AND if that is the case Aly has done her job well.</p><p></p><p>She isn't an evil shild - she is a child fighting to survive. As are you, Jayme, your husband - your entire family. It seems the only one not greatly impacted by Aly's actions last night is Aly. I would bet she's sitting back & watching the chaos she created.</p><p></p><p>Think on it, sweetie. I've seen it happen here. I know it happens elsewhere.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 120835, member: 393"] Vickie - sorry that things escalated to that level. I was also thinking a bit like Calista. You know our "little wonders" are pros at triangulation & somehow, someway, it's going to be someone else's fault. They are just the poor misunderstood orphan. And you know I don't say this lightly.l We've been through too much together with our individual adopted children to know I wouldn't bring it up if it weren't a concern. However, I'm not walking in your shoes - I don't know where your marriage is. I don't know if your husband is using Aly to not face up to issues between you & him. AND if that is the case Aly has done her job well. She isn't an evil shild - she is a child fighting to survive. As are you, Jayme, your husband - your entire family. It seems the only one not greatly impacted by Aly's actions last night is Aly. I would bet she's sitting back & watching the chaos she created. Think on it, sweetie. I've seen it happen here. I know it happens elsewhere. [/QUOTE]
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