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<blockquote data-quote="Im a Believer" data-source="post: 224307" data-attributes="member: 6448"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">Hi Friends ~ As I have pondered my difficult child#4's sons recent suicide attempt and observed interactions at the hospital between my family members - I think I am seeing the reality of the disfuncion of our family in a new light.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I have often wondered why my ex is always "KING" in the eyes of all my kids dispite his abuse to most of them and forlack of a better word out and out jerky personality.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I have blamed myself and battled guilt for longer than my soul can bear.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">My ex never respected nor valued me in our 20 year marriage but I respected and treated him with value.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">Of course my kids don't know how to value me - They have never seen it demonstrated.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I have never understood why they wouldn't be happy for me that I now have been married to a man for 6 years that does cherish me and is so very good to them - He has provided for my children in so many ways.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">It just dawned on me - That is foreign to them - They don't understand why I am being valued and they see it as "he has taken me from them although they are all mostly adults".</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I'm not sure if it is appropraite to list this type of post here so thanks for letting me share my feelings.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I cannot believe the weight I feel has been lifted off my shoulders.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">I have not experienced being with my ex for any length of time since our divorce 10 years ago so this week has indeed been an education.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 15px">Thanks for letting me share - Judy</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Im a Believer, post: 224307, member: 6448"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]Hi Friends ~ As I have pondered my difficult child#4's sons recent suicide attempt and observed interactions at the hospital between my family members - I think I am seeing the reality of the disfuncion of our family in a new light.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I have often wondered why my ex is always "KING" in the eyes of all my kids dispite his abuse to most of them and forlack of a better word out and out jerky personality.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I have blamed myself and battled guilt for longer than my soul can bear.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]My ex never respected nor valued me in our 20 year marriage but I respected and treated him with value.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]Of course my kids don't know how to value me - They have never seen it demonstrated.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I have never understood why they wouldn't be happy for me that I now have been married to a man for 6 years that does cherish me and is so very good to them - He has provided for my children in so many ways.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]It just dawned on me - That is foreign to them - They don't understand why I am being valued and they see it as "he has taken me from them although they are all mostly adults".[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I'm not sure if it is appropraite to list this type of post here so thanks for letting me share my feelings.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I cannot believe the weight I feel has been lifted off my shoulders.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I have not experienced being with my ex for any length of time since our divorce 10 years ago so this week has indeed been an education.[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]Thanks for letting me share - Judy[/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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