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The suicide letter..and the drama king
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<blockquote data-quote="justtired" data-source="post: 465561" data-attributes="member: 12898"><p>Peter Pan boys.. I have to remember that. It's a good description. </p><p></p><p></p><p>He does act like a 4 yr. old with us. With his friends, he's mr.macho. </p><p></p><p>Malika, husband and I both talked to him and what we've gotten from our discussion is that my son doesn't feel loved or wanted because basically, we're not treating like a child anymore. I won't make him lunch. He's got two hands. IF I do make lunch which is rare, I will offer him some, but I'm not going out of my way to just make him lunch. </p><p></p><p>I don't buy the microwavable junk food that he likes.. it's expensive and unhealthy, and he's got a job he can buy it himself. </p><p></p><p>I won't buy him clothes or shoes anymore.. because he's 24. </p><p></p><p>As a matter of fact in my son's suicide letter, he mentioned my grandson and how I treat him like the 'golden child'. My grandson is 6. I make him snacks. We read together, we snuggle together. I buy him clothes, and my son is very jealous of that relationship because thats the type of relationship he and I used to have when he was younger. </p><p></p><p></p><p>no, he's not on drugs, and if I had seen the suicide note earlier I would have called the police because I would love for him to forced to see a psychiatrist, but my son was already on his way to work before I saw it. </p><p></p><p></p><p> If I didn't laugh at the situation occasionally, I think I'd go insane..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="justtired, post: 465561, member: 12898"] Peter Pan boys.. I have to remember that. It's a good description. He does act like a 4 yr. old with us. With his friends, he's mr.macho. Malika, husband and I both talked to him and what we've gotten from our discussion is that my son doesn't feel loved or wanted because basically, we're not treating like a child anymore. I won't make him lunch. He's got two hands. IF I do make lunch which is rare, I will offer him some, but I'm not going out of my way to just make him lunch. I don't buy the microwavable junk food that he likes.. it's expensive and unhealthy, and he's got a job he can buy it himself. I won't buy him clothes or shoes anymore.. because he's 24. As a matter of fact in my son's suicide letter, he mentioned my grandson and how I treat him like the 'golden child'. My grandson is 6. I make him snacks. We read together, we snuggle together. I buy him clothes, and my son is very jealous of that relationship because thats the type of relationship he and I used to have when he was younger. no, he's not on drugs, and if I had seen the suicide note earlier I would have called the police because I would love for him to forced to see a psychiatrist, but my son was already on his way to work before I saw it. If I didn't laugh at the situation occasionally, I think I'd go insane.. [/QUOTE]
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