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The suicide letter..and the drama king
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 465638" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Yes at my house too....LOL. I hear lots of that and lately. it is also true that since I am not his REAL mom it doesn't matter. he has a huge fantasy mom in his brain. I have never told him the truth because it is not pretty. His bio parents rights were terminated before my homestudy ever was on a SW desk. He is sure it is my fault that he is not with the nice mom. Just like if the vet would not have given the shot to our cat he would still be alive now, a year later (he was barely breathing when we took him in). He also doesn't know bio dad is in jail. oh my, I guess feeding, cleaning up barf, laundry,cooking, taking the beatings, finding the doctors etc. is not being a real mom...not enough for him...but everything else is my responsibility...that is, my fault! ( I actually feel good he is going through a normal adoptive kind of phase, but with his lack of a "filter" how he says it sounds way more harsh than other kids sound when I hear about or read about them having that fantasy about birthmom.</p><p></p><p>About your son's acting so young like that...his logic and testing seem so immature as you said....I dont know anything about this but isn't there a thing called adjustment disorder or something like that where kids just have a really hard time moving on in life? Not that any difficult child needs ANOTHER label!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 465638, member: 12886"] Yes at my house too....LOL. I hear lots of that and lately. it is also true that since I am not his REAL mom it doesn't matter. he has a huge fantasy mom in his brain. I have never told him the truth because it is not pretty. His bio parents rights were terminated before my homestudy ever was on a SW desk. He is sure it is my fault that he is not with the nice mom. Just like if the vet would not have given the shot to our cat he would still be alive now, a year later (he was barely breathing when we took him in). He also doesn't know bio dad is in jail. oh my, I guess feeding, cleaning up barf, laundry,cooking, taking the beatings, finding the doctors etc. is not being a real mom...not enough for him...but everything else is my responsibility...that is, my fault! ( I actually feel good he is going through a normal adoptive kind of phase, but with his lack of a "filter" how he says it sounds way more harsh than other kids sound when I hear about or read about them having that fantasy about birthmom. About your son's acting so young like that...his logic and testing seem so immature as you said....I dont know anything about this but isn't there a thing called adjustment disorder or something like that where kids just have a really hard time moving on in life? Not that any difficult child needs ANOTHER label! [/QUOTE]
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