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The suicide letter..and the drama king
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 466214" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Yup, calm before the next storm. Typical abuser type behaviors. And believe it or not, a kid can abuse their parents. Might be helpful (to you not him) to call a domestic violence shelter and have a chat with the staff. You may find it very informative. And you certainly don't have to get physical to be abusive.</p><p></p><p>If it were my child, I'd have myself in a lawyers office first thing in the morning to draw up formal eviction papers. I'd give him just the amount of time allowed by law. After that? Up to him. No longer your problem. </p><p></p><p>No adult child would be living in my home treating me like that. Nope. Not happening. </p><p></p><p>Travis still lives at home. He can't pay rent yet, soon as he gets his college loan refunds he will be paying rent again. Once his disability is in place he'll be paying rent and helping with utilities or moving out and paying his own rent and utilities. Even paying rent and such? He still does my trash. Still helps me with odds and ends jobs around the house. Helps me feed the dogs ect. </p><p></p><p>The cops aren't stupid, they'll figure out in short order what is going on. In the meantime, you keep yourself covered as far as difficult child is concerned. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 466214, member: 84"] Yup, calm before the next storm. Typical abuser type behaviors. And believe it or not, a kid can abuse their parents. Might be helpful (to you not him) to call a domestic violence shelter and have a chat with the staff. You may find it very informative. And you certainly don't have to get physical to be abusive. If it were my child, I'd have myself in a lawyers office first thing in the morning to draw up formal eviction papers. I'd give him just the amount of time allowed by law. After that? Up to him. No longer your problem. No adult child would be living in my home treating me like that. Nope. Not happening. Travis still lives at home. He can't pay rent yet, soon as he gets his college loan refunds he will be paying rent again. Once his disability is in place he'll be paying rent and helping with utilities or moving out and paying his own rent and utilities. Even paying rent and such? He still does my trash. Still helps me with odds and ends jobs around the house. Helps me feed the dogs ect. The cops aren't stupid, they'll figure out in short order what is going on. In the meantime, you keep yourself covered as far as difficult child is concerned. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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