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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 69491" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>I no longer believe in the bottom for ant. the POTADA site talks about hitting bottom. they may never hit it. this is ant. this is who he is, this is his life. when he goes to jail, it will be without me. he makes choices and so do I.</p><p></p><p>I choose to perhaps drive him to his hearing if he has no other way to go. I already told him I will not visit, may not accept calls but will write. my life cannot be intertwined with his anymore. this has gone on too long. it may be the rest of his life. God plans for me at this point are to lay back and let it go. </p><p></p><p>last night in talking to ant I caught him in a lie. a bold one. I told him he lied. he kind of laughed and admitted this lie, one he has sworn up and down to be true for a couple months. it lit a lightbulb to me that he is back in a big way manipulating and using people with no remorse other than his pain when he gets caught. </p><p></p><p>the lie was this: his dad bought hima computer in june. he took it back to the store for the money next day. he said the store gave him 200 and was to mail him the rest of it...500.00 more. </p><p></p><p>he has said for two months that he never got the rest of the money. his dad thinks he still has the computer. his dad told him if he goes to jail he has to give the computer to his dad. I told ant he must tell his dad he returned the computer for the money. if not, his dad will think I have it. he laughed and said you wont tell him because you dont talk to him and I wont tell him either. I told him I know he did get the 500.00 he admitted it and laughed. he said that was what was stolen from him the night he was robbed. so he justifies that he got nothing for the computer. his thinking is screwed up. detachment can be easy this way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 69491, member: 97"] I no longer believe in the bottom for ant. the POTADA site talks about hitting bottom. they may never hit it. this is ant. this is who he is, this is his life. when he goes to jail, it will be without me. he makes choices and so do I. I choose to perhaps drive him to his hearing if he has no other way to go. I already told him I will not visit, may not accept calls but will write. my life cannot be intertwined with his anymore. this has gone on too long. it may be the rest of his life. God plans for me at this point are to lay back and let it go. last night in talking to ant I caught him in a lie. a bold one. I told him he lied. he kind of laughed and admitted this lie, one he has sworn up and down to be true for a couple months. it lit a lightbulb to me that he is back in a big way manipulating and using people with no remorse other than his pain when he gets caught. the lie was this: his dad bought hima computer in june. he took it back to the store for the money next day. he said the store gave him 200 and was to mail him the rest of it...500.00 more. he has said for two months that he never got the rest of the money. his dad thinks he still has the computer. his dad told him if he goes to jail he has to give the computer to his dad. I told ant he must tell his dad he returned the computer for the money. if not, his dad will think I have it. he laughed and said you wont tell him because you dont talk to him and I wont tell him either. I told him I know he did get the 500.00 he admitted it and laughed. he said that was what was stolen from him the night he was robbed. so he justifies that he got nothing for the computer. his thinking is screwed up. detachment can be easy this way. [/QUOTE]
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