Well, I have made phone calls all morning. I feel good about taking action to get help, but I'm not one for the wait, LOL! 1) School principal- she isn't in today- I'd really like her opinion 2) The place doing the studies that Smallworld sent me info on- I looked this up online and am not sure that difficult child will meet criteria for any current study, but the online info looks good since maybe they can put him inpatient for a few weeks (it isn't local, but not too far away), take him off medications and check him out, and he'd go to school while there, so I left a message asking if we could discuss if difficult child meets criteria 3) Parent Education Advocacy Center- I want to know if they have any other ideas and I had to leave a message 4) CSA coordinator (the person in our jurisdiction in charge of this community "team"- I finally found a contact person and number!!- I have a call in to get info So, now I just sit and wait as I fidget with my anxiety, LOL!! Thanks to all who have sent me info...!! And Star, the info you sent was helpful- the private providers can be accessed thru this team so looking thru their online info about services offered gives me a little more knowledge about what to push for and what to stay clear of!!