I placed a call to therapist yesterday, he wasn't in. difficult child's appointment. was today. after refusing to go to class on Friday, and being kicked out of class withing the first 10 minutes, I called therapist again today. He said difficult child told him one week that he hates me. Can't stand living with me and everything is about how much he hates me. Then last week it was all about school. I informed therapist of what has been going on, difficult child's talk about his hearing, and feeling overwhelmed. therapist suggested day hospital program because something is obviously going on. School was doing nothing at one point, then I stepped in and now they are trying to accomadate him although he is currently being tested by school therapist, and SW. I told husband that I am not longer going to be the one laying out the rules. So do NOT tell difficult child to "ask mom" when he wants something. When I get a call from school I will leave husband a message and he will have to call school to get details (on his break). Each time I speak to school either difficult child won't talk to me or refuses any request I make of him. husband calls and he then does what he is told. I don't know if it is just because it is husband or if it is because by the time husband has his break and can call, difficult child has had time to settle down. I get the call as soon as he is removed. Told therapist that we are not in a financial situation to enter him into a day hospital program. he see's psychiatrist on Friday, and will talk to him about all that is going on. I cried all day, couldn't sleep again thinking of how bad it hurts that difficult child told therapist how much he hates me. Even when they came home, I did not come out of my room until difficult child was in bed. When I did get up, husband said not one single word to me. So, i do not know how therapist appointment. went, what rules he laid down..if any or how difficult child's day went after husband called school. I always said i would never give up on him, I would always believe in him, and I would always be there for him. I do not think I can do that anylonger. Everything I have done has just feels like it has been a waste. I am exhausted and nothing to show for it. I quit.