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<blockquote data-quote="Robinboots" data-source="post: 359918" data-attributes="member: 4542"><p>Oh, hon, I've been trying to get "placement" for this kid for two years. Now that he's 17, no one will do diddly. And it's taken 2 years to get "them" to see what he's really like. I did check the box on "order counseling" for the PO.</p><p></p><p>That said, on Weds at 4 I was at the courthouse to file. Filled out the paperwork and waited...for THREE hours. Took that long for the gal to type it all up - well, mine and a bunch of others. My rear end still hurts from that hard bench! The temp PO was granted, court date June 10. That paper is with me at all times, and they said they'd fax it to my local PD and get difficult child served.</p><p></p><p>Today, difficult child showed up. Walked in before my other son and his friend saw him, and I said: "You can't be here." He asked why, and I said because "the judge said so." He asked if I'd gotten a PO against him and I said yes, and he asked to see it. He looked at it, handed it back, said he hadn't been served, and left.</p><p></p><p>Turns out he went to the PD and I guess asked them. They called me, said they hadn't received it. I was TICKED. Called county, they swore they'd faxed it Weds night, but they did again. This time the PD received it. Called the county where difficult child is supposedly staying, they have it, but haven't served him. I knew that. There's a website where you can check and get notified by email or phone. Not that I trust that!</p><p></p><p>As for his BioDad - well, I have another word for him - I have an email ready to go to him, but haven't sent it. Best I can tell, difficult child told him I "kicked him out" and so he's stopped paying support. He's known for over a year what's been going on, but has stayed completely out of things - the court notified on everything while difficult child was on probation. He also met difficult child for the first time in August, the dingy caseworker set that up WITHOUT telling me. I am still pizzed over that.</p><p></p><p>And I know a LOT about difficult child's cronies - I am an excellent Internet stalker...er, investigator!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Robinboots, post: 359918, member: 4542"] Oh, hon, I've been trying to get "placement" for this kid for two years. Now that he's 17, no one will do diddly. And it's taken 2 years to get "them" to see what he's really like. I did check the box on "order counseling" for the PO. That said, on Weds at 4 I was at the courthouse to file. Filled out the paperwork and waited...for THREE hours. Took that long for the gal to type it all up - well, mine and a bunch of others. My rear end still hurts from that hard bench! The temp PO was granted, court date June 10. That paper is with me at all times, and they said they'd fax it to my local PD and get difficult child served. Today, difficult child showed up. Walked in before my other son and his friend saw him, and I said: "You can't be here." He asked why, and I said because "the judge said so." He asked if I'd gotten a PO against him and I said yes, and he asked to see it. He looked at it, handed it back, said he hadn't been served, and left. Turns out he went to the PD and I guess asked them. They called me, said they hadn't received it. I was TICKED. Called county, they swore they'd faxed it Weds night, but they did again. This time the PD received it. Called the county where difficult child is supposedly staying, they have it, but haven't served him. I knew that. There's a website where you can check and get notified by email or phone. Not that I trust that! As for his BioDad - well, I have another word for him - I have an email ready to go to him, but haven't sent it. Best I can tell, difficult child told him I "kicked him out" and so he's stopped paying support. He's known for over a year what's been going on, but has stayed completely out of things - the court notified on everything while difficult child was on probation. He also met difficult child for the first time in August, the dingy caseworker set that up WITHOUT telling me. I am still pizzed over that. And I know a LOT about difficult child's cronies - I am an excellent Internet stalker...er, investigator! [/QUOTE]
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