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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 679840" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Leafy, you are just the most awesome person. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /> You too Pasajes. I appreciate everyone here so much!</p><p> </p><p>I know he's saying a lot of the same stuff. He's said it to me...back when girlfriend was looking for work, that he'd told her, "You can't just put in an application and hope someone calls. You have to follow up!" If I had a dime for all the times we said that to him...</p><p> </p><p>I guess I'm just so worried that, now that he's finally trying to do right, it'll all fall apart. I know my son. "If I try and it falls apart, then why try at all?" will be his response. His plan had been each of them contribute $200 a month and there would be more than enough for rent/electric/etc. While that's the same as what he earns, he's paying rent pretty much alone, there's now a big utility bill, he has to buy food and such, his entire paycheck is gone each payday and so it's not getting paid. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p> </p><p>He did say to me that if he has to get a second job or a different full-time job, he'll be kicking out everyone else because "If I have to do it all myself, why should I pay for them too?" I agreed with that completely.</p><p> </p><p>I just hope they get jobs soon and this works out. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 679840, member: 17309"] Leafy, you are just the most awesome person. :hugs: You too Pasajes. I appreciate everyone here so much! I know he's saying a lot of the same stuff. He's said it to me...back when girlfriend was looking for work, that he'd told her, "You can't just put in an application and hope someone calls. You have to follow up!" If I had a dime for all the times we said that to him... I guess I'm just so worried that, now that he's finally trying to do right, it'll all fall apart. I know my son. "If I try and it falls apart, then why try at all?" will be his response. His plan had been each of them contribute $200 a month and there would be more than enough for rent/electric/etc. While that's the same as what he earns, he's paying rent pretty much alone, there's now a big utility bill, he has to buy food and such, his entire paycheck is gone each payday and so it's not getting paid. :( He did say to me that if he has to get a second job or a different full-time job, he'll be kicking out everyone else because "If I have to do it all myself, why should I pay for them too?" I agreed with that completely. I just hope they get jobs soon and this works out. :( [/QUOTE]
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