so difficult child 1 (19) is living with girlfriend (19) and girlfriend's single mom. I met girlfriend's mom via phone last week. Well.... lets just say that this woman is very.... "special".... Me: Hi this is "difficult child 1's" Mom "D" girlfriend's mom: Hi my name is "S", can I ask why you kicked out "difficult child 1"? Me: well "difficult child 1" had a lot of chances and he repeatedly was disrespectful, abusive and kept getting in trouble with the law. Not to mention he did not graduate and refused to get a job. Plus he had services through the state until he was 21 that would've helped him, but he signed them away. girlfriend's mom: Oh well him and girlfriend are probably going to have to at least get PT jobs, cause I work 2 jobs and it's getting tight giving them cigarette $ everyday. Me: excuse me, what? You do what? girlfriend's mom: well they do this and that around the house for me Me: um yeah, but they are 19 not 9! Can I ask you...do you know off hand if they're using any protection? girlfriend's mom: Oh Gosh I hope so! It's something I worry about everyday! Me (after repeatedly facedesking): well maybe you should by them a box of condoms instead of cigerettes and tell them to smoke those! Oh yeah.....she's SPECIAL!