It's getting really bad here. This house has been in constant turmoil for the past week. husband is saying he actually hates difficult child. Despises her. I honestly can't say I blame him. I am getting there, too. And he is talking about moving out because he can't see putting up with this for another year. She mentioned going back to my mom's house up north last night. I am thinking it may not be a bad idea for everyone for her to go back. She certainly isn't doing anything here. No job, no thoughts on college. My mother is perfectly happy having her around doing nothing, so why not? I could fly her up there next weekend for less than two hundred bucks...our house was sooo peaceful when she was up there, my mom was happy because she had some one around all the time, and difficult child was happy being a lazy bum. It is very far away....that is the only hesitation I have. But the hesitation is selfish, I guess. I long for that mother/daughter relationship that I know deep down we will never have.