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Thinking about the collateral damage
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 633470" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Me, again.</p><p></p><p>:0)</p><p></p><p>So what I was trying to post last night had to do with the healing that came for me, and for husband, from understanding a little more about what happened to all of us. Over the years of rebuilding our lives together (instead of divorcing), both husband and I have had to let go of blaming one another, even in our secret hearts, for the destruction of that dream of family, of who you all will be together as the years pass, of how it will be to learn you are going to be a grandparent, of how it is going to look and smell and feel when the holidays come around.</p><p></p><p>Of high school graduation parties, off to college time, of watching your child build a successful career and establish a place of respect for him or herself in the world.</p><p></p><p>Each of those milestones for us have been occasions of deep pain, of mourning that we can't really share because there is nothing to say that can help. </p><p></p><p>OH FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE.</p><p></p><p>This phone. </p><p></p><p>Grrrr...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 633470, member: 17461"] Me, again. :0) So what I was trying to post last night had to do with the healing that came for me, and for husband, from understanding a little more about what happened to all of us. Over the years of rebuilding our lives together (instead of divorcing), both husband and I have had to let go of blaming one another, even in our secret hearts, for the destruction of that dream of family, of who you all will be together as the years pass, of how it will be to learn you are going to be a grandparent, of how it is going to look and smell and feel when the holidays come around. Of high school graduation parties, off to college time, of watching your child build a successful career and establish a place of respect for him or herself in the world. Each of those milestones for us have been occasions of deep pain, of mourning that we can't really share because there is nothing to say that can help. OH FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE. This phone. Grrrr... [/QUOTE]
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