I am new to the forum. My husband and I do not know what to do. We adopted our son two and half years ago and was told he had no problems. The child has been since diagnosed with odd, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), bipolar axis two and anti social personality disorder with suicidal and homicidal tendencies. He has threatened to kill us all and threatened to rape our 16 year old daughter. We found out that dfacs new he was bipolar and that he has killed close to 50 animals. He refuses to bathe and poops and pees all over his room. He is on limictil, risperdal, wellbutrin, and trazodone. He has been arrested numerous times and spent one month in ydc. he hit me the other day and then threatened to kill us all again so we pressed charges and they put him on house arrest, which makes no sense since it is the people in the house he is threatening. he 1s 13 years old and completeley out of control. we are thinking of giving him back to the state but not really sure if that would not make him worse. dont really know what to do, but we fear him.