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This apartment fell through for difficult child....
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<blockquote data-quote="pinevalley" data-source="post: 521535" data-attributes="member: 3710"><p>Mstang: </p><p></p><p>I have been following the posts about your difficult child with interest, because I also have a son in jail right now. I'm sorry to hear that your difficult child is continuing to have problems even after he is out of prison.</p><p>"difficult child also seems to think that we HAVE to help him because he's our son. He has yet to grasp the concept that at age 22, we don't HAVE to do jack poo."</p><p></p><p>The attitude of your difficult child sounds very similiar to me, and because my son says the exact same thing to h and I. This sense of entitlement from the difficult child's really makes me so furious! My difficult child has been in jail for 6 weeks and he is in a drug treatment program while he is in jail. I was hoping that being in jail would be a total shock to our difficult child, and it would force him to take responsibility for his actions. Unfortunately our difficult child has adjusted well to jail, and even now he is making demands to my h and I. He feels like we HAVE to help him by putting lots of money in his commissary account every week, and by setting up a phone account so he can call his girlfriend from jail, and also by making demands of us when he calls us. He does not even act remorseful for stealing from me, and he blames me for putting him in jail because I insisted on pressing charges for the theft. It just astounds me that this kid feels like he has the right to demand that we help him when he was the one who committed the crimes in the first place. The nerve of these kids! </p><p></p><p>Anyway, good luck with your difficult child, and stay strong. HUGS...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pinevalley, post: 521535, member: 3710"] Mstang: I have been following the posts about your difficult child with interest, because I also have a son in jail right now. I'm sorry to hear that your difficult child is continuing to have problems even after he is out of prison. "difficult child also seems to think that we HAVE to help him because he's our son. He has yet to grasp the concept that at age 22, we don't HAVE to do jack poo." The attitude of your difficult child sounds very similiar to me, and because my son says the exact same thing to h and I. This sense of entitlement from the difficult child's really makes me so furious! My difficult child has been in jail for 6 weeks and he is in a drug treatment program while he is in jail. I was hoping that being in jail would be a total shock to our difficult child, and it would force him to take responsibility for his actions. Unfortunately our difficult child has adjusted well to jail, and even now he is making demands to my h and I. He feels like we HAVE to help him by putting lots of money in his commissary account every week, and by setting up a phone account so he can call his girlfriend from jail, and also by making demands of us when he calls us. He does not even act remorseful for stealing from me, and he blames me for putting him in jail because I insisted on pressing charges for the theft. It just astounds me that this kid feels like he has the right to demand that we help him when he was the one who committed the crimes in the first place. The nerve of these kids! Anyway, good luck with your difficult child, and stay strong. HUGS... [/QUOTE]
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