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<blockquote data-quote="Julie Y" data-source="post: 74804" data-attributes="member: 4063"><p>I know. I have tried to talk with them when this happens over and over again. I am able to connect with the 15 yo and help her process her feelings. I have held her when she has cried herself to sleep when her mother hurts her. I can't even imagine what it must be like. The 12 yo won't let me be close to her. She won't give me a chance. I have tried talking with her, but she just screams at me and my husband. Last night was just rough. The 12 yo went into her room and just sobbed and sobbed. It broke my heart. I tried to talk to her, she cussed me out and threw things at me. I tell her all the time that I am here and ready when she is. I guess last night was just hard on everyone. I just don't know how to help the 12 yo. If I just lay low and try not to say much, she screams at me that I don't love her and I don't want her around. If I try to talk to her, she screams at me to leave her alone and she hates me. I know it is all about their feelings. Like I said, I have had conversations with the 15 yo and desperately want that with the 12 yo. </p><p></p><p>The 15 yo goes to the same place for help. However, they have yet to schedule her counseling since her suicide attempts this summer. She has seen the psychiatrist and like I said is on a new regime of medicine that has had amazing results. She is doing well in school and we are all communicating much better. She still needs counseling. Actually, I think we are all in desperate need of that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Julie Y, post: 74804, member: 4063"] I know. I have tried to talk with them when this happens over and over again. I am able to connect with the 15 yo and help her process her feelings. I have held her when she has cried herself to sleep when her mother hurts her. I can't even imagine what it must be like. The 12 yo won't let me be close to her. She won't give me a chance. I have tried talking with her, but she just screams at me and my husband. Last night was just rough. The 12 yo went into her room and just sobbed and sobbed. It broke my heart. I tried to talk to her, she cussed me out and threw things at me. I tell her all the time that I am here and ready when she is. I guess last night was just hard on everyone. I just don't know how to help the 12 yo. If I just lay low and try not to say much, she screams at me that I don't love her and I don't want her around. If I try to talk to her, she screams at me to leave her alone and she hates me. I know it is all about their feelings. Like I said, I have had conversations with the 15 yo and desperately want that with the 12 yo. The 15 yo goes to the same place for help. However, they have yet to schedule her counseling since her suicide attempts this summer. She has seen the psychiatrist and like I said is on a new regime of medicine that has had amazing results. She is doing well in school and we are all communicating much better. She still needs counseling. Actually, I think we are all in desperate need of that. [/QUOTE]
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