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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 300252" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Well, long story short, L made rude noises at me all day long in e-mails. Essentially, how can I be so awful to my poor poor parents who only want a relationship with me?</p><p></p><p>I kept telling her that it was really about her, and it they didn't really like me, and she kept being more and more rude. I told her it was enough and I was done.</p><p></p><p>When I got home from work, there was another message from my mom on the machine. I didn't listen to it, and had husband deal with it. He called L and left a message telling her to stop. He reminded her that she had agreed to stay out of it and he was holding her to it. He then called my mom, who answered.</p><p></p><p>My mom said "We'd really like to get together with you all and L for lunch." husband told her, "That's fine, but not right now, and not with L." My mom said "But it's for L. She wants it so much." husband told her "You should know that each time this comes up with L, it is a big problem for the family. So if you would like to have lunch with Witzend, for Witzend, you should call her sometime and leave L out of it." I don't know what exactly she said. husband tells me that her response led him to believe that we won't be getting an invite for lunch. If she does call, and I don't get advance notice from L, and L is not also invited, I will know she'll want to see me. But I'm not holding my breath.</p><p></p><p>I have to admit it does hurt that it's not something they would do because it's important to them or to me or that either they or we would want it. But, it's not a surprise, and I hurt a lot less knowing it's over. For now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 300252, member: 99"] Well, long story short, L made rude noises at me all day long in e-mails. Essentially, how can I be so awful to my poor poor parents who only want a relationship with me? I kept telling her that it was really about her, and it they didn't really like me, and she kept being more and more rude. I told her it was enough and I was done. When I got home from work, there was another message from my mom on the machine. I didn't listen to it, and had husband deal with it. He called L and left a message telling her to stop. He reminded her that she had agreed to stay out of it and he was holding her to it. He then called my mom, who answered. My mom said "We'd really like to get together with you all and L for lunch." husband told her, "That's fine, but not right now, and not with L." My mom said "But it's for L. She wants it so much." husband told her "You should know that each time this comes up with L, it is a big problem for the family. So if you would like to have lunch with Witzend, for Witzend, you should call her sometime and leave L out of it." I don't know what exactly she said. husband tells me that her response led him to believe that we won't be getting an invite for lunch. If she does call, and I don't get advance notice from L, and L is not also invited, I will know she'll want to see me. But I'm not holding my breath. I have to admit it does hurt that it's not something they would do because it's important to them or to me or that either they or we would want it. But, it's not a surprise, and I hurt a lot less knowing it's over. For now. [/QUOTE]
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