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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 301361"><p>Katya...Wonderfully said! </p><p> </p><p>Witz...</p><p>I have been there done that with my father. When my children were little, I began limiting my association with him. It was not a pretty picture and not easy. </p><p> </p><p>In the end...I think we all have choices. He has a choice to get healthier and to be a more pleasant individual.</p><p> </p><p>I have a choice to refuse to be hoovered into toxic relationships. It wasn't ideal, but it was freeing for me.</p><p> </p><p>If he could have met me half way, I would have gone with that. We did this with one of DHs difficult relatives and it worked out very well.</p><p> </p><p>Especially with a difficult child in the picture, I just didn't have the time or desire to be preoccupied with unecessary drama trauma and in the end, I'm glad I made the decision to do it this way.</p><p> </p><p>I so agree with katya...you do what you need to do...hold your head up high, be a united front with your husband and move forward...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 301361"] Katya...Wonderfully said! Witz... I have been there done that with my father. When my children were little, I began limiting my association with him. It was not a pretty picture and not easy. In the end...I think we all have choices. He has a choice to get healthier and to be a more pleasant individual. I have a choice to refuse to be hoovered into toxic relationships. It wasn't ideal, but it was freeing for me. If he could have met me half way, I would have gone with that. We did this with one of DHs difficult relatives and it worked out very well. Especially with a difficult child in the picture, I just didn't have the time or desire to be preoccupied with unecessary drama trauma and in the end, I'm glad I made the decision to do it this way. I so agree with katya...you do what you need to do...hold your head up high, be a united front with your husband and move forward... [/QUOTE]
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