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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 343132" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">You're right, Terry, this is really gross - <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I think your approach to tackle it from a sanitary point of view as opposed to simply shaming her and embarrassing her is the best. I think perhaps they should monitor her BM movements for a while to see when she truly needs to 'go'; possibly have an aide 'shadow' her to prevent her from doing this again...i.e., gentle reminders about remaining clean and sanitary.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">That said, I do think it's one thing for her to be trying to alleviate the pressure and another thing to be spreading it on the walls, etc. To me, that sounds like more than an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) thing of feeling pressure and trying to alleviate it. That behavior is different and she should probably be seen by a phsychiatrist/therapist to figure out what's going on with that. There is a name for it, but I can't think of it now. There are many on the board who have dealt with it and I'm hoping one will come by soon.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Hugs - that had to be a difficult call.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 343132, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]You're right, Terry, this is really gross - :winking:[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I think your approach to tackle it from a sanitary point of view as opposed to simply shaming her and embarrassing her is the best. I think perhaps they should monitor her BM movements for a while to see when she truly needs to 'go'; possibly have an aide 'shadow' her to prevent her from doing this again...i.e., gentle reminders about remaining clean and sanitary.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]That said, I do think it's one thing for her to be trying to alleviate the pressure and another thing to be spreading it on the walls, etc. To me, that sounds like more than an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) thing of feeling pressure and trying to alleviate it. That behavior is different and she should probably be seen by a phsychiatrist/therapist to figure out what's going on with that. There is a name for it, but I can't think of it now. There are many on the board who have dealt with it and I'm hoping one will come by soon.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Hugs - that had to be a difficult call.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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