Well to "get me off his back".....Dude tells me that yesterday BFF was the one that gave x my number. So I'm thinking - Okay - I can handle that - it's just that cell number. I can call, have it blocked....whatever. Then the more I thought about it...I thought, nope. I have a life, you're not part of it and really forgot about it. It felt good to think I could just go on about my day and not hide in a closet and not want to die thinking about how scared I used to be. I couldn't even begin to explain it. Fifteen years of therapy should give you a clue and EMDR therapy, membership to a gun club, martial arts classes, self-defense courses....3 pit bulls, living with a biker, security system and well you get the jist of it - even 15 years later. So IMAGINE MY surprise when Dude calls x last night from our house phone - blocked number of course and says..."I lied about BFF to get you off my back." DF and I were both like...."WHAT?" He said "It wasn't BFF it was the Foster Mom." Okay there is NOW a new level of disgust for this woman - she KNEW/KNOWS the entire history of my life. SHE KNEW I have been in hiding from x for 15 years. She claims to also have been an abused wife. WTF? (sorry nothing else comes to mind) Not only did she pass out my cell phone - she passed him our home phone and gave him OUR ADDRESS. I'm surprised she didn't send him a #()$*( map and offer to give him a Garmin. For 15 years - this man has not been able to find us. For 15 years I've had some sort of peace. Not much but some. For just the last year I've finally slept through the night thanks to therapy and drugs. Last night? Brain would not shut off. This isn't right. DF is livid and wants to go out to their house and....And I said what?? They are not right in the head. If they were they would have never done this. SO talking to them would serve no purpose other than to solidify that her evil little plan worked and upset me. I'm sure the call was anticipated. I'm sure the corners of her mouth curled like the Grinch on Christmas morning. What an idiot. Dude apologized for lying - which at the least makes me feel better about his friend, and in some way about Dude for coping to the truth. He also said that he told x not to call either number - ever. x said he would not - but thats just a matter of time. I guess this expidites putting the house up for sale. (wish I could put lol) I wish I didn't have to shop for a couple of new numbers...(grrrrrr) I'm telling you this man is the plague. I think when he DOES come here - he should stay at the Foster family's house. They would get along. The black plague and the Ebola family.