Unfortunately I'm another one who knows what it's like first hand and believe me, I wanted to kill both of them! There may be a few clueless souls out there who dont know that the man is married but I'm sure most do. My ex certainly wasn't anywhere remotely near a "good" husband and she actually did me a favor by getting him out of our house, but the way it was done was horrible and damaging, way more than it needed to be. He and I worked in the same place and she did too, so this was played out in front of everyone we knew. She was the original "good time that was had by all" if you get my drift ... but he was the only one dumb enough to actually leave his family for her. And she was horrible! It was like a big game to her and she could have cared less that he was married and had two kids that were involved. All she wanted was another paycheck coming in to the house and someone to help her with her two horrible children. She passed up no opportunity to try to humiliate me every chance she got. And she did some awful things that were so hurtful to my children, especially my son who was only 15 at the time. Of course the ex allowed it to happen too, and I will never, ever forgive either one of them for the hurt they caused for my children and for me. I mean, if he wanted to leave, he could have just LEFT! Lord knows, I would have helped him pack! No need for all the games and all the hurtful things that were done. And I'm SURE that it was her that put him up to running up a bunch of bills on our son's SSN and ruining his credit for years to come - he would have never thought of that on his own! So yes, at the time, I could have cheerfully strangled both of them but especially her because she actually ENJOYED it!
And you know what they say about karma ... a few years later the ex lost his job for doing something he shouldn't have been doing, probably to make some extra money for HER! And as soon as she had spent his last paycheck, she promptly left him for his best friend - the best friend whose sweet wife was dying of cancer! She moved right in on him even before the wife died and was right there when the wife died to help him pick up the pieces (and spend the life insurance money)!