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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 748439" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you Apple. Grateful to read the updates, BBU, KT'smom, and ksm.</p><p></p><p>I am staying focused on myself. Trying to get healthier physically, mentally, spiritually, but feeling fragile. Still working on organizing the house. Thank you Apple.</p><p></p><p>I'm not posting threads anymore. What is there to say?</p><p>The threads were largely distress and overwhelm. Overflow. Really. Why bother anybody anymore? Why delude myself into thinking there's anything that I can do to make this better? That said...</p><p></p><p>I kicked J out of the other house yet again. I cannot bear his hanging out in the yard, sitting on the stoop, high on marijuana all day. We did not give him a key this time. He had to leave when M did. So. What he did was circle back when M left to smoke his marijuana and lay around. I tried to stay away, so I would not have to confront it, and when I did, I could not handle it.</p><p></p><p>It's all the same old tune. He's been gone again maybe 6 weeks, sleeping in a shed in somebody's backyard in the major metro north of us. Heard nothing from him. Really washed my hands of the whole thing.</p><p></p><p>Surprisingly, he did send a text for Mother's Day. A first. I saw it today. Writing, "<em>things are not going well</em>." Gee. Who would have thunk it.</p><p></p><p>I have no answers. The difference is that I am at the point of accepting that it's not my business to either have questions or answers with respect to my son's life.</p><p></p><p>Looking forward from hearing from others.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 748439, member: 18958"] Thank you Apple. Grateful to read the updates, BBU, KT'smom, and ksm. I am staying focused on myself. Trying to get healthier physically, mentally, spiritually, but feeling fragile. Still working on organizing the house. Thank you Apple. I'm not posting threads anymore. What is there to say? The threads were largely distress and overwhelm. Overflow. Really. Why bother anybody anymore? Why delude myself into thinking there's anything that I can do to make this better? That said... I kicked J out of the other house yet again. I cannot bear his hanging out in the yard, sitting on the stoop, high on marijuana all day. We did not give him a key this time. He had to leave when M did. So. What he did was circle back when M left to smoke his marijuana and lay around. I tried to stay away, so I would not have to confront it, and when I did, I could not handle it. It's all the same old tune. He's been gone again maybe 6 weeks, sleeping in a shed in somebody's backyard in the major metro north of us. Heard nothing from him. Really washed my hands of the whole thing. Surprisingly, he did send a text for Mother's Day. A first. I saw it today. Writing, "[I]things are not going well[/I]." Gee. Who would have thunk it. I have no answers. The difference is that I am at the point of accepting that it's not my business to either have questions or answers with respect to my son's life. Looking forward from hearing from others. [/QUOTE]
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