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<blockquote data-quote="gma" data-source="post: 462271" data-attributes="member: 12738"><p>Thank you, thank you, thank you...</p><p>And yes I agree with it all. </p><p>45 days was not enough - we all knew as good as she was doing on the outside, there was way too much instability on the inside and with medications. Funds and resources ran out for the inpatient. She knew coming home wasn't good asked to stay where her program was a couple of hours from here. Set her up with sober housing, partial in-patient giving her every opportunity to continue to work her program. She just couldn't pick it up by herself yet. I have found other options for her, but she personally needs to get on their lists. She says won't do it again, and that every time we don't know what to do with her we send her off to some hospital , says too tired just wants to give up. Whatever it takes we'll make it happen if she'd only get on board...</p><p></p><p>Getting the drugs, you're right and I just try not to go there in my mind when I can't change it. Believe me anything I said couldn't be any worse than what she says to herself. </p><p></p><p>Helping myself, yep... I need to dig in. Did really good last year, did it all, meetings, had a great therapist that really helped me sort out a plan and "yes" even though we had to watch her walk out the door in the middle of winter knowing she was going to sleep in the boyfriend car was the hardest ever (she showed up cold and in tears, we said you can stay but the boyfriend isn't welcome, she said she understood, loved us and asked if she could take a blanket before she left). Eventually she asked for the help we offered which was full residential only - too many emergency 72 hour holds just for insurance, hospital and her to say she was out of danger and could be released..</p><p>Alanon and therapist on my "to do", thanks for the "nudge", your right and I've been finding every reason not too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gma, post: 462271, member: 12738"] Thank you, thank you, thank you... And yes I agree with it all. 45 days was not enough - we all knew as good as she was doing on the outside, there was way too much instability on the inside and with medications. Funds and resources ran out for the inpatient. She knew coming home wasn't good asked to stay where her program was a couple of hours from here. Set her up with sober housing, partial in-patient giving her every opportunity to continue to work her program. She just couldn't pick it up by herself yet. I have found other options for her, but she personally needs to get on their lists. She says won't do it again, and that every time we don't know what to do with her we send her off to some hospital , says too tired just wants to give up. Whatever it takes we'll make it happen if she'd only get on board... Getting the drugs, you're right and I just try not to go there in my mind when I can't change it. Believe me anything I said couldn't be any worse than what she says to herself. Helping myself, yep... I need to dig in. Did really good last year, did it all, meetings, had a great therapist that really helped me sort out a plan and "yes" even though we had to watch her walk out the door in the middle of winter knowing she was going to sleep in the boyfriend car was the hardest ever (she showed up cold and in tears, we said you can stay but the boyfriend isn't welcome, she said she understood, loved us and asked if she could take a blanket before she left). Eventually she asked for the help we offered which was full residential only - too many emergency 72 hour holds just for insurance, hospital and her to say she was out of danger and could be released.. Alanon and therapist on my "to do", thanks for the "nudge", your right and I've been finding every reason not too. [/QUOTE]
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