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So, I am caring for my neighbor who is 92 while her daughter is in detox. I have been driving daughter to health club and meetings to try to help her keep sober but she got sick agsin. Now in detox I am running over to make sure grandma eats etc. my other neighbor was scheduled to do it last night but I was at hospital and then my sisters and I needed that...I thought it was taken care of. TUrns out grandma insisted to her I was coming back to feed animals etc. that means she didn't get tea, animals didn't get fed...she refused the food neighbor brougt until I came. Oh Lord, I will go check now but I missed the text from neighbor last night. I feel terrible.
So, if daughter gets out on thurs, that's good. Grandma is going to be so mad at me. (really she will feel hurt and be upset I think) and even if neighbor comes home, how do I know they are safe. grandma has forbidden me from calling her phn because she already is tryihg to get herinto assisted living. Her animals keep her alive. What to do? If neighbor doesn't come back and if she can't stay sober, I really know what I have to do but anything in the mean time??? At any other time I could do a better job with this but with difficult child in hospital.....
So, if daughter gets out on thurs, that's good. Grandma is going to be so mad at me. (really she will feel hurt and be upset I think) and even if neighbor comes home, how do I know they are safe. grandma has forbidden me from calling her phn because she already is tryihg to get herinto assisted living. Her animals keep her alive. What to do? If neighbor doesn't come back and if she can't stay sober, I really know what I have to do but anything in the mean time??? At any other time I could do a better job with this but with difficult child in hospital.....