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To write a letter or not? Opinions please.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 765238" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I think the issue here is you learning to calm yourself, stay in yourself, and stay in the present. It really has nothing to do with your daughter, even though you think it does. If you were to calm yourself, in the present--you would return to yourself and your life. You are perseverating about something that is not an issue now. The thing is your daughter will return or not to your house, if she wants, whether you tell her 1 time or 100 times.</p><p></p><p>I think to send the letter might be very hurtful to her and potentially destabilizing and would serve no purpose at all, even to you. You will not return to calm until you realize you're the one who, all alone, without acting, has the capacity to calm yourself.</p><p></p><p>I agree with all healinginside writes.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter will or will not make her own hope based upon her own choices. We make our own hope based upon our own actions.</p><p></p><p>This is what happens when we base our own well-being on the actions or attitudes of another person over whom we have no control.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 765238, member: 18958"] I think the issue here is you learning to calm yourself, stay in yourself, and stay in the present. It really has nothing to do with your daughter, even though you think it does. If you were to calm yourself, in the present--you would return to yourself and your life. You are perseverating about something that is not an issue now. The thing is your daughter will return or not to your house, if she wants, whether you tell her 1 time or 100 times. I think to send the letter might be very hurtful to her and potentially destabilizing and would serve no purpose at all, even to you. You will not return to calm until you realize you're the one who, all alone, without acting, has the capacity to calm yourself. I agree with all healinginside writes. Your daughter will or will not make her own hope based upon her own choices. We make our own hope based upon our own actions. This is what happens when we base our own well-being on the actions or attitudes of another person over whom we have no control. [/QUOTE]
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