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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 581941" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I under the hurt and feeling disposable, that is exactly how I am treated by my 34yo difficult child. I am ignored on all holidays, BUT, he makes sure he contacts me on HIS birthday and Christmas.</p><p></p><p>After his lies and conns last year I told him the money I gave him for bus tickets was his birthday present and I stuck to it. He showed his butt, threatening suicide and nasty language, when I didn't give him money in November, He had already <strong><em>borrowed</em></strong> money in October and said he would pay me back (as usual) and I told him he had to pay me back. Well, I didn't hear from him until he wanted money again. </p><p></p><p>I'm really trired of the lies and I am not sure where he is BUT I can always buy a card and post the number on FB so he can cash it. <strong><em>I just don't think so!</em></strong></p><p></p><p>My difficult child actually went NC with me and then dropped me on FB after I didn't send him money for Christmas. I am very hurt and dissappointed in my son, in my opinion he is perfectly happy to be an irresponsible screw up for the rest of him life. Perfectly content to have blue spiked hair and attend every concert possible.</p><p></p><p>I felt like my job was to be my son's 'cheering section' and I'm burned out. Please do something for yourself on his birthday and think of something positive you have in your life. </p><p></p><p>It is really hard around holidays.</p><p>(((huggs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 581941, member: 13558"] I under the hurt and feeling disposable, that is exactly how I am treated by my 34yo difficult child. I am ignored on all holidays, BUT, he makes sure he contacts me on HIS birthday and Christmas. After his lies and conns last year I told him the money I gave him for bus tickets was his birthday present and I stuck to it. He showed his butt, threatening suicide and nasty language, when I didn't give him money in November, He had already [B][I]borrowed[/I][/B] money in October and said he would pay me back (as usual) and I told him he had to pay me back. Well, I didn't hear from him until he wanted money again. I'm really trired of the lies and I am not sure where he is BUT I can always buy a card and post the number on FB so he can cash it. [B][I]I just don't think so![/I][/B] My difficult child actually went NC with me and then dropped me on FB after I didn't send him money for Christmas. I am very hurt and dissappointed in my son, in my opinion he is perfectly happy to be an irresponsible screw up for the rest of him life. Perfectly content to have blue spiked hair and attend every concert possible. I felt like my job was to be my son's 'cheering section' and I'm burned out. Please do something for yourself on his birthday and think of something positive you have in your life. It is really hard around holidays. (((huggs))) [/QUOTE]
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