sigh............ I feel sorry for him, as he is spending his 42nd birthday locked up in rehab.This is the 1st year in over a decade I am not making him an angel food cake with vanilla icing. But I feel even more sorry for difficult child II who also knows it's his Dad's birthday and that yesterday was father's day and he hasn't talked to his Dad in 4 weeks or seen him since January. sigh............ I am in a rutt again, trying to push my butt on out of it.