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Today's incident. What would you have done?
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 266999" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Thank you all.</p><p> </p><p>Yes, I'm doing ok. I did go to my doctor today and get some Zoloft. </p><p> </p><p>But, here's the background.</p><p> </p><p>When I made my huge mistake at work, I discovered it at 6am this morning. Wee difficult child saw me on the computer at home and saw I was upset and I told him I made a big mistake at work. As any kid his age does, the universe is all about him, so he thought it was his fault. He was very helpful this morning, opening doors for me, carrying my stuff, etc.</p><p> </p><p>In the car, he said something again about it being his fault that I made a mistake at work. I said no, it was not his fault, but, I said, you can help me. When you get in trouble at school, I get a call, and it makes it hard to work.</p><p> </p><p>He said "like you get too many things in your mind? like me?"</p><p> </p><p>I said yeah, like that. He said he would try.</p><p> </p><p>So when he was apologizing at school? He was apologizing to me because he thought he was getting me in more trouble at work! </p><p> </p><p>I could not say anything while it was happening or I would have taken some people out. In fact, I had to go to the cafeteria and get a milk because my blood sugar bottomed out and I was shaking. After I put wee difficult child on the bus, tho, I went back and asked SpEc teacher to meet THEN. We did, and I told her. I also called the SpEd director. </p><p> </p><p>I know I need to be diplomatic about this, but...this para is off his team. Starting Monday. I have no idea what "rights" I have, but I have witnessed, first hand, 6 events, and every time, this para either started it or made it worse.</p><p> </p><p>Off the record, SpEd teacher, again, said "so so para" isn't just bad with wee difficult child, she's bad with all the kids.</p><p> </p><p>So, anyone know what my rights are to demand a para change due to this?</p><p> </p><p>And thank you all. I would be literally crazy if I didn't have you guys.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 266999, member: 1848"] Thank you all. Yes, I'm doing ok. I did go to my doctor today and get some Zoloft. But, here's the background. When I made my huge mistake at work, I discovered it at 6am this morning. Wee difficult child saw me on the computer at home and saw I was upset and I told him I made a big mistake at work. As any kid his age does, the universe is all about him, so he thought it was his fault. He was very helpful this morning, opening doors for me, carrying my stuff, etc. In the car, he said something again about it being his fault that I made a mistake at work. I said no, it was not his fault, but, I said, you can help me. When you get in trouble at school, I get a call, and it makes it hard to work. He said "like you get too many things in your mind? like me?" I said yeah, like that. He said he would try. So when he was apologizing at school? He was apologizing to me because he thought he was getting me in more trouble at work! I could not say anything while it was happening or I would have taken some people out. In fact, I had to go to the cafeteria and get a milk because my blood sugar bottomed out and I was shaking. After I put wee difficult child on the bus, tho, I went back and asked SpEc teacher to meet THEN. We did, and I told her. I also called the SpEd director. I know I need to be diplomatic about this, but...this para is off his team. Starting Monday. I have no idea what "rights" I have, but I have witnessed, first hand, 6 events, and every time, this para either started it or made it worse. Off the record, SpEd teacher, again, said "so so para" isn't just bad with wee difficult child, she's bad with all the kids. So, anyone know what my rights are to demand a para change due to this? And thank you all. I would be literally crazy if I didn't have you guys. [/QUOTE]
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