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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 380808" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>And this is their problem- he does need more services but they don;t have them available. I'm facing/fighting the same problem with my difficult child- albeit it is an entirely different situation and services needed. When that happens, local authoriteis will inevitably try to blame the kid or the parent. It is very easy for the parent to become defensive against that. I'm suggesting that you step back and not play that game - no matter how much they are putting you into that role with their CYA'ing. It might honestly be that they can't educate him in a mainstream schhool- his needs exceed even what most paras can help with. I don't know and you can't go to the sd or to court and say you know that either. What you can say is that it is the sd's responsibility to find a way to educate your son and find an aproriate place to do it. If you get caught up in anything else, the judge will focus on that and not the bigger objective- in some jurisdictions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 380808, member: 3699"] And this is their problem- he does need more services but they don;t have them available. I'm facing/fighting the same problem with my difficult child- albeit it is an entirely different situation and services needed. When that happens, local authoriteis will inevitably try to blame the kid or the parent. It is very easy for the parent to become defensive against that. I'm suggesting that you step back and not play that game - no matter how much they are putting you into that role with their CYA'ing. It might honestly be that they can't educate him in a mainstream schhool- his needs exceed even what most paras can help with. I don't know and you can't go to the sd or to court and say you know that either. What you can say is that it is the sd's responsibility to find a way to educate your son and find an aproriate place to do it. If you get caught up in anything else, the judge will focus on that and not the bigger objective- in some jurisdictions. [/QUOTE]
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