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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 278359" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hi,</p><p> </p><p>It must be hard for you to go there, the visits, all his thoughts........</p><p> </p><p>I'd say reality has hit it sounds like. Reality of where he is right now, which i think is a good thing. Also seems like some reality regarding the hole he has gotten himself into as well. That's all good stuff. So, is the talking about the future, what he'd like to do, classes, friends. all that is great!</p><p> </p><p>Why do you seem, I don't know not totally pleased with the visit? I think you handled it great by telling him that he can work to get out of the hole. Maybe an idea would be as it gears closer to that time and i know a year's a while he can work on things there, you could maybe bring him info, resources, etc. to help get his brain flowing the positive route sort of thing.</p><p> </p><p>As far as doctors I know what you mean. It's so scary. He needs someone to help him find that middle between the emotion and acting upon it. The coping skill, and ability to verbalize how he feels calmly and troubleshoot it himself or with you. It is so so hard. Feels impossible certain days with my own difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>I think you did great. I think from what you wrote it sounds like it went very well. Hard therapists are very difficult to find. </p><p> </p><p>((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 278359, member: 4514"] Hi, It must be hard for you to go there, the visits, all his thoughts........ I'd say reality has hit it sounds like. Reality of where he is right now, which i think is a good thing. Also seems like some reality regarding the hole he has gotten himself into as well. That's all good stuff. So, is the talking about the future, what he'd like to do, classes, friends. all that is great! Why do you seem, I don't know not totally pleased with the visit? I think you handled it great by telling him that he can work to get out of the hole. Maybe an idea would be as it gears closer to that time and i know a year's a while he can work on things there, you could maybe bring him info, resources, etc. to help get his brain flowing the positive route sort of thing. As far as doctors I know what you mean. It's so scary. He needs someone to help him find that middle between the emotion and acting upon it. The coping skill, and ability to verbalize how he feels calmly and troubleshoot it himself or with you. It is so so hard. Feels impossible certain days with my own difficult child. I think you did great. I think from what you wrote it sounds like it went very well. Hard therapists are very difficult to find. ((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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