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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 114430"><p>You ladies are making me cry. Thank you for the support and ata-boys. Sleep deprivation - makes me emotional. Sorry.</p><p></p><p>I'd have to pull out the divorce papers to see the exact verbage, but it's really a moot point. He's 16, by the time next visitation rolls around he'll be almost 17. Not a whole lot his dad can do IF he were so inclined and he's not going to part with any money over this. And it would cost money to go to court.</p><p></p><p>I do know it says a lot in the papers about being for the child, but that has never been K's (easy child's dad) interest. It's always been about him.</p><p></p><p>When easy child was 8 or 9, it was the day before he was supposed to come home from visitation. They had sloppy joes for dinner and easy child hates them. K was the pickiest eater I've ever known - lived on hot dogs and hamburgers and the closest thing to a vegetable to pass his lips was french fries. K told easy child that if he didn't eat his sloppy joe, he was going to sit at the table all night. If he still didn't eat it, he would have to eat it for breakfast. If he still didn't eat it, he wasn't coming home. easy child was hysterical. K took the phone from him and hung it up; wouldn't let easy child talk to me.</p><p></p><p>I pulled out the divorce papers and the letter of agreement for that visitation, contacted the sheriff's office and they told me to come down and they would escort me to get easy child. K took the phone off the hook. I called K's mom and told her that if I didn't hear from him within 5 minutes, I was on my way and the police would be with me.</p><p></p><p>K called back and said that easy child ate the sloppy joe. He was gloating...like he won. I was beyond livid. Told him that he may think he's won, but he lost a lot more in terms of easy child's trust. </p><p></p><p>I could give 100 more examples like that. It wasn't the last time I almost had to have police involvement to get my kid. I sent easy child down with a calling card because his dad wouldn't let him call me. </p><p></p><p>easy child said that after he turns 18, the only reason he'll have for going down there is to visit his grandma (K's mom). He said he's not going down for Spring Break this year and he's iffy on summer.</p><p></p><p>Nothing is ever K's fault. K will turn this all around on me. It's ok; I can handle it. I know the truth. He's only hurting his relationship with his son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 114430"] You ladies are making me cry. Thank you for the support and ata-boys. Sleep deprivation - makes me emotional. Sorry. I'd have to pull out the divorce papers to see the exact verbage, but it's really a moot point. He's 16, by the time next visitation rolls around he'll be almost 17. Not a whole lot his dad can do IF he were so inclined and he's not going to part with any money over this. And it would cost money to go to court. I do know it says a lot in the papers about being for the child, but that has never been K's (easy child's dad) interest. It's always been about him. When easy child was 8 or 9, it was the day before he was supposed to come home from visitation. They had sloppy joes for dinner and easy child hates them. K was the pickiest eater I've ever known - lived on hot dogs and hamburgers and the closest thing to a vegetable to pass his lips was french fries. K told easy child that if he didn't eat his sloppy joe, he was going to sit at the table all night. If he still didn't eat it, he would have to eat it for breakfast. If he still didn't eat it, he wasn't coming home. easy child was hysterical. K took the phone from him and hung it up; wouldn't let easy child talk to me. I pulled out the divorce papers and the letter of agreement for that visitation, contacted the sheriff's office and they told me to come down and they would escort me to get easy child. K took the phone off the hook. I called K's mom and told her that if I didn't hear from him within 5 minutes, I was on my way and the police would be with me. K called back and said that easy child ate the sloppy joe. He was gloating...like he won. I was beyond livid. Told him that he may think he's won, but he lost a lot more in terms of easy child's trust. I could give 100 more examples like that. It wasn't the last time I almost had to have police involvement to get my kid. I sent easy child down with a calling card because his dad wouldn't let him call me. easy child said that after he turns 18, the only reason he'll have for going down there is to visit his grandma (K's mom). He said he's not going down for Spring Break this year and he's iffy on summer. Nothing is ever K's fault. K will turn this all around on me. It's ok; I can handle it. I know the truth. He's only hurting his relationship with his son. [/QUOTE]
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