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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 569236" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Oh hun. I dont know if I have the right words to say to you but I will try.</p><p></p><p>You got together with your first boyfriend or partner (whichever you want to call it) and had those two babies so young. I dont find it odd that you had trouble bonding with your second baby after having him so closely after having the first one. It was simply too soon. </p><p></p><p>Here is my sad story. I ended up pregnant with my oldest by a guy I barely knew almost 3 months after I was raped at the age of 18. Both sets of our parents put pressure on us to marry and I didnt have the fight left in me to do anything else. I should have either aborted him or not married the guy. Probably both. I have never had the same relationship with my oldest son that I do with my youngest two boys. Oh we do get along but he lived with my mom for about half his life and he has never in his life called me Mom. He has always called me Janet. I do love him dearly. I know he loves me. It just isnt the same as with my other two.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 569236, member: 1514"] Oh hun. I dont know if I have the right words to say to you but I will try. You got together with your first boyfriend or partner (whichever you want to call it) and had those two babies so young. I dont find it odd that you had trouble bonding with your second baby after having him so closely after having the first one. It was simply too soon. Here is my sad story. I ended up pregnant with my oldest by a guy I barely knew almost 3 months after I was raped at the age of 18. Both sets of our parents put pressure on us to marry and I didnt have the fight left in me to do anything else. I should have either aborted him or not married the guy. Probably both. I have never had the same relationship with my oldest son that I do with my youngest two boys. Oh we do get along but he lived with my mom for about half his life and he has never in his life called me Mom. He has always called me Janet. I do love him dearly. I know he loves me. It just isnt the same as with my other two. [/QUOTE]
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