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Total and Utter Disrespect. Ideas, Insight, Reaction,Opinion?
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 616208" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Anger releases the energy we need to blast through dysfunctional family patterns and see just how sick what we've learned to accept or adjust to is, susiestar. Given the nastiness of the visible patterns, the toxicity going on under the radar must be unimaginable.</p><p></p><p>You posted that things like this have always happened in your family of origin. The difference this time is that you are healthy enough to react to the wrongness in the way it has always been with real anger <em><u>and receive feedback from those who know you well</u> here on the site</em>.</p><p></p><p>That's a giant leap forward.</p><p></p><p>Soon, you will be strong enough to be angry for yourself, not just for your children. And then, once you can really see the wrongness in it, once you can see how pointless the hurt they deal out is, you will change the pattern.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 616208, member: 17461"] Anger releases the energy we need to blast through dysfunctional family patterns and see just how sick what we've learned to accept or adjust to is, susiestar. Given the nastiness of the visible patterns, the toxicity going on under the radar must be unimaginable. You posted that things like this have always happened in your family of origin. The difference this time is that you are healthy enough to react to the wrongness in the way it has always been with real anger [I][U]and receive feedback from those who know you well[/U] here on the site[/I]. That's a giant leap forward. Soon, you will be strong enough to be angry for yourself, not just for your children. And then, once you can really see the wrongness in it, once you can see how pointless the hurt they deal out is, you will change the pattern. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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