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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 496026" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ok, this is my opinion.</p><p></p><p>He is very possibly not completely in control of what he does. He probably has some childhood disorder, be it attachment related, ADHD with ODD, or something you haven't thought of yet. He needs a complete evaluation, but I am not sure if they do that in France or if they even believe that kids can have real disorders that cause "bad" behaviors. Clearly something has to change so that you can handle him better and so he can regulate himself better, whether he can control it or not. His touching everything is common in sensory issues. </p><p></p><p>I think you have a complicated little guy there with a lot of issues going on and no way to currently get help, which is sad for both of you. Have you read "The Explosive Child" yet? If not, it is a keeper! You can get it from Amazon. Does anybody there deal with adopted children so he can be assessed for attachment problems? Was he in an orphanage for three months (I forget)? Is there ANY support system at all for you and your precious little cutie (yes, I know he doesn't seem precious and cute all the time...lol). Still, I saw his picture and he IS a little cutie <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> (when not raging).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 496026, member: 1550"] Ok, this is my opinion. He is very possibly not completely in control of what he does. He probably has some childhood disorder, be it attachment related, ADHD with ODD, or something you haven't thought of yet. He needs a complete evaluation, but I am not sure if they do that in France or if they even believe that kids can have real disorders that cause "bad" behaviors. Clearly something has to change so that you can handle him better and so he can regulate himself better, whether he can control it or not. His touching everything is common in sensory issues. I think you have a complicated little guy there with a lot of issues going on and no way to currently get help, which is sad for both of you. Have you read "The Explosive Child" yet? If not, it is a keeper! You can get it from Amazon. Does anybody there deal with adopted children so he can be assessed for attachment problems? Was he in an orphanage for three months (I forget)? Is there ANY support system at all for you and your precious little cutie (yes, I know he doesn't seem precious and cute all the time...lol). Still, I saw his picture and he IS a little cutie :) (when not raging). [/QUOTE]
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