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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 695198" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Actually yes. For two reasons: 1. His biodad was an alcoholic. 2. It's just "weird".</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>No, no, no. He WAS...before college. He still occasionally smokes, I know. But he does NOT use it daily and is definitely NOT constantly in an altered state. He would not be allowed to live here if that were the case. I'm quite sure he goes days without anything to drink (or smoke) at all. 50/50 maybe? I suppose when he goes to a friends, he has a beer. But the other day when I picked him up, he hadn't ... he'd been hanging out and playing video games, but not drinking. So it isn't a constant thing anymore.</p><p></p><p>I think that this is actually more of an issue for Jabber than me. I don't mind the occasional beer or wine or whatever. Occasional as in one, once or maybe twice a week; NOT every night, NOT six at a time. I could live with that and would prefer it over him feeling he has to leave the house every time he wants a drink or to hide it. </p><p></p><p>But it's still weird.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 695198, member: 17309"] Actually yes. For two reasons: 1. His biodad was an alcoholic. 2. It's just "weird". No, no, no. He WAS...before college. He still occasionally smokes, I know. But he does NOT use it daily and is definitely NOT constantly in an altered state. He would not be allowed to live here if that were the case. I'm quite sure he goes days without anything to drink (or smoke) at all. 50/50 maybe? I suppose when he goes to a friends, he has a beer. But the other day when I picked him up, he hadn't ... he'd been hanging out and playing video games, but not drinking. So it isn't a constant thing anymore. I think that this is actually more of an issue for Jabber than me. I don't mind the occasional beer or wine or whatever. Occasional as in one, once or maybe twice a week; NOT every night, NOT six at a time. I could live with that and would prefer it over him feeling he has to leave the house every time he wants a drink or to hide it. But it's still weird. [/QUOTE]
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