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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 517576" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I read in a book about anger management that getting angry (not violent) is not always a bad thing. It tells the person you have boundaries and they have crossed them.</p><p></p><p>My 33 yo difficult child was never diagnosed with mental problems. He started drugs at a young age and I am not sure if he was born with them or they are drug related, but I see mental issues.</p><p></p><p>He is a 'follower' and each time he has gotten into trouble over the years it was never with one of his childhood friends. He picks the girlfriend from h*** and the last one is the worse yet.</p><p></p><p>They were clean and sober for a year and started going to concerts. I guess they thought they could handle it and slowly started drinking, and drugs (although he had denied the drugs). </p><p></p><p>The girlfriend started calling me and harrassing me after they would have fights. I finally called the police a couple of months ago to stop the harrassment. She was ordered no contact what so ever.</p><p></p><p>They had a huge fight (he cuts himself and threatens suicide) and she went into detox and he Baker Acted himself. He asked me to call his childhood friend and leave a message. The only reason I did was because the pay phone he was calling from was very hard to hear.</p><p></p><p>No one called me back. When I spoke with my difficult child he said they were probably blocking my number. <strong><em>WHY???</em></strong> He said they didn't like his girlfriend. <strong><em>WHY??? </em></strong>Finally the sister of the childhood friend text me and said they never wanted to see difficult child again. The witch had been harrassing them and witch lied to my difficult child and he called them and threatened them. He did the same thing to his sister. </p><p></p><p>He also left me a nasty message after he found out I had called the police, but he didn't threaten me. I don't know what kind of twisted game they were playing, but he has now lost the one reliable friend he has had since elementary school. He had to know she was lying and I guess he was the protector to call and defend her!!!</p><p></p><p>He has text me twice asking for money and I ignore him. I have rehearsed it in my head to keep from screaming at him when he does call. I know I probably will not hear from him for several months, but he will call around his birthday. I was yelling at him the last time he called and I told him they were acting like 2yos, he is 33 and she is 37. </p><p></p><p>I do not want to yell at him, he blamed everything on girlie and I want him to know that we all know the truth now!!! Yes, it does make you (me) feel better to vent!!</p><p>(((hugs for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 517576, member: 13558"] I read in a book about anger management that getting angry (not violent) is not always a bad thing. It tells the person you have boundaries and they have crossed them. My 33 yo difficult child was never diagnosed with mental problems. He started drugs at a young age and I am not sure if he was born with them or they are drug related, but I see mental issues. He is a 'follower' and each time he has gotten into trouble over the years it was never with one of his childhood friends. He picks the girlfriend from h*** and the last one is the worse yet. They were clean and sober for a year and started going to concerts. I guess they thought they could handle it and slowly started drinking, and drugs (although he had denied the drugs). The girlfriend started calling me and harrassing me after they would have fights. I finally called the police a couple of months ago to stop the harrassment. She was ordered no contact what so ever. They had a huge fight (he cuts himself and threatens suicide) and she went into detox and he Baker Acted himself. He asked me to call his childhood friend and leave a message. The only reason I did was because the pay phone he was calling from was very hard to hear. No one called me back. When I spoke with my difficult child he said they were probably blocking my number. [B][I]WHY???[/I][/B] He said they didn't like his girlfriend. [B][I]WHY??? [/I][/B]Finally the sister of the childhood friend text me and said they never wanted to see difficult child again. The witch had been harrassing them and witch lied to my difficult child and he called them and threatened them. He did the same thing to his sister. He also left me a nasty message after he found out I had called the police, but he didn't threaten me. I don't know what kind of twisted game they were playing, but he has now lost the one reliable friend he has had since elementary school. He had to know she was lying and I guess he was the protector to call and defend her!!! He has text me twice asking for money and I ignore him. I have rehearsed it in my head to keep from screaming at him when he does call. I know I probably will not hear from him for several months, but he will call around his birthday. I was yelling at him the last time he called and I told him they were acting like 2yos, he is 33 and she is 37. I do not want to yell at him, he blamed everything on girlie and I want him to know that we all know the truth now!!! Yes, it does make you (me) feel better to vent!! (((hugs for us all))) [/QUOTE]
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