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<blockquote data-quote="healinginside" data-source="post: 763869" data-attributes="member: 29962"><p>No matter how bad it feels inside or how much is goes against your motherly instinct, you are doing the right thing by cutting off the money train. Give some kindness to yourself, you've been through so much that you did not create or deserve. The thing I resent the most from this journey is that I followed all of the rules and my child, who had a wonderful upbringing, chose not to, but yet the moms have to suffer physically, mentally and emotionally. You clearly care and love your grandchild. Your daughter, if the pregnancy story is true, is going to have to come to some realizations pretty quickly. If you let her in, she will use the twins as the excuse to stay home for the rest of your life while you support all four of them. Where is the Dad in all of this? She needs court-ordered child support and a full time job. You didn't cause this, you can't control it and you can't cure it. Find a naranon meeting online (they are anonymous) and it doesn't even have to be with people in your area. They help tremendously. There's an entire community of moms going through similar situations as we all are going through. Keep a journal but tear up the pages and flush down the toilet or burn so that no one will e er read it. Do it daily pray or meditate - just give your brain time to rest. You put the offer on the table for your granddaughter but just be careful as you will need to have strict boundaries in place as she will try to get in the door as well. Stay strong, find a naranon meeting, know you are doing the right thing and be kind tn your self <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="healinginside, post: 763869, member: 29962"] No matter how bad it feels inside or how much is goes against your motherly instinct, you are doing the right thing by cutting off the money train. Give some kindness to yourself, you've been through so much that you did not create or deserve. The thing I resent the most from this journey is that I followed all of the rules and my child, who had a wonderful upbringing, chose not to, but yet the moms have to suffer physically, mentally and emotionally. You clearly care and love your grandchild. Your daughter, if the pregnancy story is true, is going to have to come to some realizations pretty quickly. If you let her in, she will use the twins as the excuse to stay home for the rest of your life while you support all four of them. Where is the Dad in all of this? She needs court-ordered child support and a full time job. You didn't cause this, you can't control it and you can't cure it. Find a naranon meeting online (they are anonymous) and it doesn't even have to be with people in your area. They help tremendously. There's an entire community of moms going through similar situations as we all are going through. Keep a journal but tear up the pages and flush down the toilet or burn so that no one will e er read it. Do it daily pray or meditate - just give your brain time to rest. You put the offer on the table for your granddaughter but just be careful as you will need to have strict boundaries in place as she will try to get in the door as well. Stay strong, find a naranon meeting, know you are doing the right thing and be kind tn your self ❤️ [/QUOTE]
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