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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 156518" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>I know what you mean, Change, but I disagree with-this:</p><p> </p><p><em>What I am an expert on is that they should have NEVER placed such "special needs" children with such ill-equipped parents like us. What a mistake for EVERYONE involved. I feel guilty, my husband feels guilty, and these children and children like them should never be placed with young couples like us (we were in our 20's!) who don't have a clue about these kinds of things to begin with. Most people have no idea the kind of guilt and shame I feel daily.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>because immediately after, you followed it with-all the testing you've had done. And of course, you're here on this bb.</p><p>There is really no one perfect expert for kids like this. Yes, you may have been ill-equipped, as were we all, but you cannot blame yourself, nor should you feel guilty.</p><p>You have become wise beyond your years, and have surely helped these kids more than had they been left to their own devices under foster care.</p><p>Don't be so hard on yourself.</p><p>Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 156518, member: 3419"] I know what you mean, Change, but I disagree with-this: [I]What I am an expert on is that they should have NEVER placed such "special needs" children with such ill-equipped parents like us. What a mistake for EVERYONE involved. I feel guilty, my husband feels guilty, and these children and children like them should never be placed with young couples like us (we were in our 20's!) who don't have a clue about these kinds of things to begin with. Most people have no idea the kind of guilt and shame I feel daily. [/I] because immediately after, you followed it with-all the testing you've had done. And of course, you're here on this bb. There is really no one perfect expert for kids like this. Yes, you may have been ill-equipped, as were we all, but you cannot blame yourself, nor should you feel guilty. You have become wise beyond your years, and have surely helped these kids more than had they been left to their own devices under foster care. Don't be so hard on yourself. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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