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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 430852"><p>OK this sounds similar to the situation we were in..... so from my experience I think Allan has a good point. Talk to her about what her concerns are and see if you can get at them and then see if you can brainstorm solutions. However she may be homesick, want to be with her old friends, and want to just come home.... and be very entrenched in the solutions she has come up with.</p><p></p><p>My guess is that she is sincere but also believes she can handle being back in the same situation with the new skills she has learned. From our experience they may have really good intentions but it doesn't mean they can really do it, as Allan would say they don't really have the skills. </p><p></p><p>I am not sure in our case what would have been a better solution. Our son did come home and did well for about a year but then he really started to slide down hill and things did not go well for him. I am not sure this would not have happened if we had sent him to another school right off.... I just don't know.</p><p></p><p>Whatever you do keep listening to your gut... that is really important.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 430852"] OK this sounds similar to the situation we were in..... so from my experience I think Allan has a good point. Talk to her about what her concerns are and see if you can get at them and then see if you can brainstorm solutions. However she may be homesick, want to be with her old friends, and want to just come home.... and be very entrenched in the solutions she has come up with. My guess is that she is sincere but also believes she can handle being back in the same situation with the new skills she has learned. From our experience they may have really good intentions but it doesn't mean they can really do it, as Allan would say they don't really have the skills. I am not sure in our case what would have been a better solution. Our son did come home and did well for about a year but then he really started to slide down hill and things did not go well for him. I am not sure this would not have happened if we had sent him to another school right off.... I just don't know. Whatever you do keep listening to your gut... that is really important. [/QUOTE]
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