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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 261102" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Witz, you put that beautifully.</p><p> </p><p>Susan, we all grow due to what life deals us and the choices we make good or bad. As long as someone doesn't stand in our way. </p><p> </p><p>Kills me to know that k and the grands are living the way they do.....and it's as bad as I worried it was....They're existing, not living. I can handle it if she and her husband want to live like that, but it eats at me that their choices force the grands to live it with them.</p><p> </p><p>Still..........K has to want to make life better for her and the kids. I can't do it for her. I learned that lesson the hard way about 7 yrs ago. It's not one I'll ever forget, even though I'm tempted at times. And yes, I do get mighty tempted. So I focus on being a devoted grandmother to the grands......as much as I can be from such a distance.</p><p> </p><p>It's good for difficult child to be uncomfortable, cold, wet, and even hungry. Those things make you stop and think.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 261102, member: 84"] Witz, you put that beautifully. Susan, we all grow due to what life deals us and the choices we make good or bad. As long as someone doesn't stand in our way. Kills me to know that k and the grands are living the way they do.....and it's as bad as I worried it was....They're existing, not living. I can handle it if she and her husband want to live like that, but it eats at me that their choices force the grands to live it with them. Still..........K has to want to make life better for her and the kids. I can't do it for her. I learned that lesson the hard way about 7 yrs ago. It's not one I'll ever forget, even though I'm tempted at times. And yes, I do get mighty tempted. So I focus on being a devoted grandmother to the grands......as much as I can be from such a distance. It's good for difficult child to be uncomfortable, cold, wet, and even hungry. Those things make you stop and think. Hang in there. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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