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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 261300" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Not knowing is driving YOU crazy - NOT him. Tell yourself that if YOU do NOT give in, and DO NOT help him - he WILL find a source to help him - another person to live with, another person to give him money - another person to feel sorry for him so if it's NOT you - it will be someone else. </p><p> </p><p>THAT should make you mad as hades. </p><p> </p><p>BUT - if he is in jail - and the opportunity to grow up, take charge of his own life, make some plans about his release, talk with someone about seriously doing rehab and making A SINGLE CHANGE in his own life happens? THEN you support him. YOU ALWAYS LOVE THEM - but you do NOT support or encourage a drug addict with a flop house, and cash - when you DO? BELIVE ME I KNOW - the blame for failure belongs to YOU. His and yours. </p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry he's making you crazy - try to occupy your mind with something else - like a craft for your kindergarteners - </p><p> </p><p>Sending MORE strength......( you know what I think is funny....? YOU deal with tiny little annoying people all day long for a living and I WOULD chew my right arm off to get out of doing something like that) lol.....you're tougher than you think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 261300, member: 4964"] Not knowing is driving YOU crazy - NOT him. Tell yourself that if YOU do NOT give in, and DO NOT help him - he WILL find a source to help him - another person to live with, another person to give him money - another person to feel sorry for him so if it's NOT you - it will be someone else. THAT should make you mad as hades. BUT - if he is in jail - and the opportunity to grow up, take charge of his own life, make some plans about his release, talk with someone about seriously doing rehab and making A SINGLE CHANGE in his own life happens? THEN you support him. YOU ALWAYS LOVE THEM - but you do NOT support or encourage a drug addict with a flop house, and cash - when you DO? BELIVE ME I KNOW - the blame for failure belongs to YOU. His and yours. I'm sorry he's making you crazy - try to occupy your mind with something else - like a craft for your kindergarteners - Sending MORE strength......( you know what I think is funny....? YOU deal with tiny little annoying people all day long for a living and I WOULD chew my right arm off to get out of doing something like that) lol.....you're tougher than you think. [/QUOTE]
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