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Trying to reach out to estranged grown child?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 217913" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I can only imagine how much this hurts you. I am sure it may get easier to handle the pain, but the pain must always be there to some degree.</p><p> </p><p>I would think a short, no pressure card at this time of year might be the way to go. Just a basic "Thinking of you" type card. I would step back from the I Love You type card, simply because he may have trouble with ANY attachment with you and your family. So the lower key the message the better. He simply may have attachment issues tot he point he simply can't connect to you at that level at this point.</p><p> </p><p>As for his religion or church, it sounds like a cult to me. It has since you first described it a couple of years ago. At least, HE is taking it to the level of cult. The others in the religion may or may not be taking it to that level. There isn't much way to tell unless you actually GO to the church - and that would not be well received probably.</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry you are hurting this way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 217913, member: 1233"] I can only imagine how much this hurts you. I am sure it may get easier to handle the pain, but the pain must always be there to some degree. I would think a short, no pressure card at this time of year might be the way to go. Just a basic "Thinking of you" type card. I would step back from the I Love You type card, simply because he may have trouble with ANY attachment with you and your family. So the lower key the message the better. He simply may have attachment issues tot he point he simply can't connect to you at that level at this point. As for his religion or church, it sounds like a cult to me. It has since you first described it a couple of years ago. At least, HE is taking it to the level of cult. The others in the religion may or may not be taking it to that level. There isn't much way to tell unless you actually GO to the church - and that would not be well received probably. I am so sorry you are hurting this way. [/QUOTE]
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