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Trying to stay on the detachment track, advice?
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 85323" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Janet (AM) ~ I didn't get him a public defender, he sat for over a month not knowing how to get one and I made the calls to find out for him. No one let him know he needed to ask for the referral paper thru the jail. The calls aren't expensive and he only calls once or twice a week.</p><p></p><p>Janet (DJ) ~ I have always said to him I would be there when he wanted to do the right thing and I think now he needs to see that I am standing behind him, yet trying to let him handle things for himself.</p><p></p><p>Maybe that is what I am having the issue with now, before when he was using and running, it was easy to stand for what was right and detach but now that he is changing I feel like I have to keep my word and be there for him</p><p></p><p></p><p>What is the happy medium between the two????</p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 85323, member: 2389"] Janet (AM) ~ I didn't get him a public defender, he sat for over a month not knowing how to get one and I made the calls to find out for him. No one let him know he needed to ask for the referral paper thru the jail. The calls aren't expensive and he only calls once or twice a week. Janet (DJ) ~ I have always said to him I would be there when he wanted to do the right thing and I think now he needs to see that I am standing behind him, yet trying to let him handle things for himself. Maybe that is what I am having the issue with now, before when he was using and running, it was easy to stand for what was right and detach but now that he is changing I feel like I have to keep my word and be there for him What is the happy medium between the two???? Traci [/QUOTE]
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