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Trying to stay on the detachment track, advice?
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 85620" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Thanks for the very well put advice.</p><p></p><p>Yet again I have been grasping for "the answer" to solve the struggle of doing good or causing more harm</p><p></p><p>It is so hard to sit behind the glass and hear him say that he 'gets' all the things I tried so hard for him to 'get' in the past, and then walk away with my warrior shield.</p><p></p><p>He has touched so many raw emotions inside of me that I had to get him to change the subject several times.</p><p></p><p>He is doing this by sharing what he has learned, not by trying to get me to help him.</p><p></p><p>He looked at me with tears in his eyes and said "I don't understand why you still love me after all I did to you"</p><p></p><p>How do you answer that without breaking down?</p><p></p><p>Gosh, this is harder than all the times before. He never wanted to change before and it was easy to keep up a wall of protection.</p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 85620, member: 2389"] Thanks for the very well put advice. Yet again I have been grasping for "the answer" to solve the struggle of doing good or causing more harm It is so hard to sit behind the glass and hear him say that he 'gets' all the things I tried so hard for him to 'get' in the past, and then walk away with my warrior shield. He has touched so many raw emotions inside of me that I had to get him to change the subject several times. He is doing this by sharing what he has learned, not by trying to get me to help him. He looked at me with tears in his eyes and said "I don't understand why you still love me after all I did to you" How do you answer that without breaking down? Gosh, this is harder than all the times before. He never wanted to change before and it was easy to keep up a wall of protection. Traci [/QUOTE]
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