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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 353500" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>After having time to calm down, I think dealing with this with calm detachment is the way to go. If you ever get a set address to send some of his normal clothing I would send them down. The things he could use in Fl. Not winter stuff. No real need there. That would be excess weight and postage for you. You can store them in the shed in case he ever grows a brain. (Maybe a year or so) </p><p></p><p>I would screen his calls completely. Or tell him one time that he has the opportunity to call you one day a week at a set time and thats it. If something were to happen to him, the authorities would get in touch with you somehow. And not by some strange text message. </p><p></p><p>I would do no more of these 4 am runs to the train station. He has pulled your strings like a puppet too many times now with that expectation only to have no Dude on the train. He knew good and well he wasnt going to be on that train! Enough. </p><p></p><p>He cant think of anyone else but himself right now. Maybe someday he will learn to do that but right now, its not there. Give him some time to grow. Its all you can do. Nothing else is working.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 353500, member: 1514"] After having time to calm down, I think dealing with this with calm detachment is the way to go. If you ever get a set address to send some of his normal clothing I would send them down. The things he could use in Fl. Not winter stuff. No real need there. That would be excess weight and postage for you. You can store them in the shed in case he ever grows a brain. (Maybe a year or so) I would screen his calls completely. Or tell him one time that he has the opportunity to call you one day a week at a set time and thats it. If something were to happen to him, the authorities would get in touch with you somehow. And not by some strange text message. I would do no more of these 4 am runs to the train station. He has pulled your strings like a puppet too many times now with that expectation only to have no Dude on the train. He knew good and well he wasnt going to be on that train! Enough. He cant think of anyone else but himself right now. Maybe someday he will learn to do that but right now, its not there. Give him some time to grow. Its all you can do. Nothing else is working. [/QUOTE]
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