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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 412418" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Im sorry Lisa. I was just talking about things like this with Jeff, my new therapist who is actually a mighty nice guy. I seem to be having luck in finding good ones now...lol. He made a quiet observation that it seemed like Tony and I were doing all the work involved in making Cory and Mandy get their act together meanwhile they had a pretty sweet deal doing pretty much nothing. Hmmm...me thinks he hit the nail on the head. They do barely nothing but sit in the room all day or go off and do their thing meanwhile we are the ones actively seeking a place for them to go live. Isnt that a bit bassakwards? We are making things a bit too cushy for them to stay. Time to turn up the heat. I think I agree with him. </p><p></p><p>This weekend I am going to move all their **** out of my spare bedroom into Billy's old truck and take over that room. Tough nuggies if they dont like it. I need that room. Keyana needs a bedroom now. I need a spare bedroom if guests come to visit. Im increasing both boys rent. They dont pay enough as it is. 100 a month isnt enough considering what our power bills are, not to mention we provide food too. Plus I do most of the cleaning and they use water and my washer and dryer constantly. I can barely get anyone to wash a dish without a major argument and no one helps clean up at all unless there is an all out fight. The most anyone does is take out the trash and that doesnt even get taken all the way down to the trash heap. I pay 100% of Keyana's expenses except if Mandy gets an idea to go do something with her like getting her a pedicure. I dont call that doing much. What 4 year old needs a pedicure? I want to know what 21 year old needs a pedicure when you dont even have your own house to live in??? That would have never occurred to me. I have never had a pedicure in my life! </p><p></p><p>No wonder Tony is irritable all the time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 412418, member: 1514"] Im sorry Lisa. I was just talking about things like this with Jeff, my new therapist who is actually a mighty nice guy. I seem to be having luck in finding good ones now...lol. He made a quiet observation that it seemed like Tony and I were doing all the work involved in making Cory and Mandy get their act together meanwhile they had a pretty sweet deal doing pretty much nothing. Hmmm...me thinks he hit the nail on the head. They do barely nothing but sit in the room all day or go off and do their thing meanwhile we are the ones actively seeking a place for them to go live. Isnt that a bit bassakwards? We are making things a bit too cushy for them to stay. Time to turn up the heat. I think I agree with him. This weekend I am going to move all their **** out of my spare bedroom into Billy's old truck and take over that room. Tough nuggies if they dont like it. I need that room. Keyana needs a bedroom now. I need a spare bedroom if guests come to visit. Im increasing both boys rent. They dont pay enough as it is. 100 a month isnt enough considering what our power bills are, not to mention we provide food too. Plus I do most of the cleaning and they use water and my washer and dryer constantly. I can barely get anyone to wash a dish without a major argument and no one helps clean up at all unless there is an all out fight. The most anyone does is take out the trash and that doesnt even get taken all the way down to the trash heap. I pay 100% of Keyana's expenses except if Mandy gets an idea to go do something with her like getting her a pedicure. I dont call that doing much. What 4 year old needs a pedicure? I want to know what 21 year old needs a pedicure when you dont even have your own house to live in??? That would have never occurred to me. I have never had a pedicure in my life! No wonder Tony is irritable all the time. [/QUOTE]
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